Book Review: Not Without My Daughter
Not Without My Daughter
0552152161 (ISBN13: 9780552152167)
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St. Martin’s Press
'Not Without My Daughter' is a memoir by Betty Mahmoody detailing her escape along with her young daughter, Mahtob, from Betty's abusive husband in Iran. The book narrates Betty's experiences during 1984-86 when she left Alpena, Michigan, to go to Iran and was subsequently held there against her wish. The book was nominated for Pulitzer Prize. It was adapted into a movie of the same name in 1991 starring Sally Field and Alfred Molina.
You are here for the rest of your life. Do you understand? You are not leaving Iran. You are here until you die.
‘Not without my daughter’ is an autobiographical account of Betty Mahmoody who fell in love with an Iranian Dr Sayyed Bozorg Mahmoody and got married to him in 1977. All was perfect in their married life and they had a lovely daughter, Mahtob. The trouble started when they went to Iran in 1984 for two-weeks visit. She reluctantly visited Iran along with her husband and daughter for what she was promised would be a short trip. At least, this was what her husband had told her. Mahtob was four years old at the time.The two week long visit turned out to be a fake promise. After the two weeks were over, her husband refused to go back and refused to allow her to return.
During 1984-86, she was held in Iran along with her daughter against her will. Betty became trapped in a country that was hostile to Americans. Her own husband had turned abusive and his family was dead against Betty. Her husband threatened to kill her if she tried to escape. Finally Betty was able to escape from Iran along with her daughter after spending two torturous years there. The book details her 500 mi (800 km) escape to Turkey through the snowy Iranian mountains and the help she received from many Iranians which helped her to escape. After her return to America in 1986, she filed for divorce.
The book is a touching account of the miserable state of women in Iran. It also depicts the trauma a woman faces for marrying outside her religion and nationality for the sake of love. How religious fanaticism changes her husband from a loving person to an abusive brute! Above all, the book describes the determination of a women to fight against all odds for the sake of her daughter. It’s amazing to see how far a mother can go to protect her daughter. It’s a very compelling and emotional account of a lone woman’s struggles in a foreign land. I was amazed by Betty's perseverence and courage. The book tells an amazing story of resilience and determination which is heart wrenching as well as inspiring. A must read!
My Rating: 4/5
Not Without My Daughter (Film)
Not Without My Daughter is a 1991 American film which was based on the memoir of the same name by Betty Mahmoody.The main characters Betty Mahmoody and Sayyed Bozorg Mahmoody were played by Sally Field and Alfred Molina respectively. The film was directed by Brian Gilbert. It didn't fare well at the box office and was poorly received.
About The Author
Betty Mahmoody is an American author and public speaker. Her claim to fame is her memoir Not Without My Daughter. She has also compiled stories of other parents whose foreign spouses estranged them from their children in the book For the Love of a Child. She has co-founded One World: For Children, an organization which works towards promoting understanding between different cultures and strives to offer security to the children of bi-cultural marriages.
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