"Christianity is Exclusive!"—How to Answer Skeptics
Ever had someone tell you that your Christian beliefs are exclusive and narrow-minded? I know I often see comments like this:
"Christians are so narrow-minded. They believe there is only one way to heaven and that's through Jesus. If someone does not believe in their Jesus, they are damned for eternity."
Other comments include things like:
"So you think that you are right and everyone else is wrong?"
Such accusations rear their ugly heads often in comment sections. Here is the simple rebuttal for these attacks.
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Is Christianity Exclusive?
Let's start with the foundational question: is Christianity exclusive?
The answer is - absolutely! Christianity is exclusive. If Christianity is true, then any belief that contradicts it is false. For example, the Bible says God exists, this means atheism is false. The Bible also teaches there is only one God of the universe, therefore, pantheism is false. The Bible says that the only way to heaven is through faith in Jesus Christ; therefore, the belief that good works can get you to heaven, is false. And on and on it goes.
"Ha! I thought so," the skeptic says, "I'm sure glad I'm not part of such a narrow-minded group like that."
But hold on. It's true that Christianity is exclusive but so is every other religion or belief system!
When the skeptic says the Bible is false, he is being exclusive. He is saying that he is right and everyone who believes the Bible is wrong. When the skeptic says 'there is no God,' this means that everyone who believes in God is wrong. Many skeptics say there is no such thing as the supernatural and that this material world is everything; this leaves out everyone who believes in God, miracles and the supernatural. Skeptics are very exclusive!
This goes for every other religion as, well.
Hindus teach we are reincarnated after we die. Therefore, anyone who believes in heaven or hell is wrong. Hinduism is exclusive.
Islam teaches that Jesus Christ was just a prophet. This leaves out all who believe He was the Son of God, and even the skeptics who say Jesus did not exist!
Every time you open your mouth to say what you believe, you are being exclusive. Every time you say something is "true," it means everything opposed to what you just said is false. You are being exclusive.
But someone may say, "Wait a minute, wait a minute. I believe that all paths lead to heaven. Therefore, I'm not exclusive at all. I include everyone."
Actually, no. By saying all paths lead to heaven, you are opposing everyone who says there is only one path to heaven, as well as the atheists who say there is no heaven at all.
But someone may say, "Well, I'm an agnostic - I'm not sure if there is a God, therefore I'm not exclusive! I'm as open-minded as you can get."
Actually, agnosticism is just as exclusive as anything else. I recently had an agnostic tell me that "no one can prove anything one way or the other" concerning God, and that it is impossible to know.
But by saying this, she was leaving out everyone who says you can know and prove things concerning God. She was also leaving out atheists who say they know God does not exist!
So the next time a skeptic asks, "So what you are saying is that everyone who believes differently from you is wrong?"
Say to them, "Yes, I am. Are you saying that everyone who believes differently from you is wrong?"
It is really that simple. Expose the hypocrisy of their thinking.
Norman Geisler on Exclusivism
The Christian apologist, Norman Geisler, tells a funny story about exclusivism in his book I Don't Have Enough Faith to Be An Atheist. Dr. Geisler was debating religious humanist Michael Constantine Kolenda. During the debate, Dr. Kolenda held up Geisler's book Christian Apologetics and declared to the audience: "These Christians are very narrow-minded people. I read Dr. Geisler's book. Do you know what he believes? He believes that Christianity is true and everything opposed to it is false! These Christians are very narrow-minded people!"
When the time came for Dr. Geisler to speak, he held up Dr. Kolenda's book called Religion Without God and declared: "These humanists are very narrow-minded people. I read Dr. Kolenda's book. Do you know what he believes? He believes that humanism is true and everything opposed to it is false! These humanists are very narrow-minded people!"
The audience laughed because they could see his point. Every belief - no matter what it is - is exclusive to everything else that contradicts it.
Why Pick on Christianity?
So, it is clear that all beliefs are exclusive. Why then, is this accusation almost exclusively leveled at Christianity and not other beliefs? Why are people always labeling Christians as narrow-minded and not Muslims or Hindus? When was the last time you heard a skeptic complain about how exclusive Islam or Buddhism or Mormonism was?
I believe it is because skeptics want to silence Christians. The Bible says that in our heart of hearts, all of us know God exists (Romans 1:18-20), but we "suppress the truth in unrighteousness." The skeptic knows perfectly well that God exists, but he does not want to hear it, so he tells you your beliefs are narrow-minded and exclusive. If you believe him and keep quiet because you feel ashamed, then he has made great strides in "suppressing the truth."
Don't be ashamed of your Christianity. It is no more exclusive than atheism or any other belief. The apostle Paul gives us an example to follow when he says he destroys false arguments that keep people from knowing God:
We are human, but we don’t wage war as humans do. We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. (2. Corinthians 10:3-5)
Keep fighting for the truth.