You're Saying it Wrong III: 5 Commonly Misspoken (and Misspelled) Words and Phrases

Your Friendly Neighborhood Grammar Geek, Volume 5

The English language is rich and adaptable. It can take words and word-elements from other languages and use them just as if they'd grown up together. It can use its own words in new and astounding ways. But sometimes, people try to push that envelope a little too far, and end up using words in ways that just won't work, no matter how far they stretch and bend out of their original meanings. In You're Saying it Wrong, part 3, we'll see why we don't pull our rope 'taunt' when we go 'repelling,' find out why inferring is different from implying, and might literally chuckle at people who try to make metaphors mean what they say.

This is what rappelling looks like.
This is what rappelling looks like. | Source

People say: “I’m going repelling.”

They mean: “I’m going rappelling.”

Here’s why:

This is another case of phonological confusion. The only differences between them in print are the first vowel and a single p versus a doubled one. When spoken (especially if the speaker is mumbling), they sound pretty much the same. The one that’s usually misused to mean the other, repelling, is usually pronounced like this: ruh PELL ing (or like this: [rəpɛlɪŋ], if you’re a phonology nerd). That little upside-down e is called a ‘schwa,’ and when you’re trying to be scientific about speech transcription, you use it when you hear what phonologists call a “mid-central vowel.” Many people say the schwa sound when they aren’t being particularly formal about their pronunciation. (Say “What do you mean?” out loud, and you’ll probably hear three schwas in rapid succession, like this: “Whə də yə mean?”) It doesn’t help the confusion when you consider that rappelling is also usually pronounced [rəpɛlɪŋ]. It makes things even worse when people who mean “I’m going to use a rope to safely descend a vertical surface” deliberately say “I’m going ree-PELL-ing,” (or [ripɛlɪŋ] for the phonology nerds) emphasizing not only the long E sound at the beginning of the wrong word but also their ignorance of the right word.

As you’ve figured out by now, rappelling means using a rope to safely descend from a height. (The word comes to English from French.) Some people do it for its own sake; others do it as a subset of mountaineering or rock-climbing. Rescue workers and soldiers do it as part of their jobs. I’ve done it myself, and it’s fun. But it has nothing at all to do with repelling, which means, “making something go away.” Sometimes people try repelling mosquitoes by spraying themselves with repellant.

Remember the difference by looking at the picture of the woman rappelling, and realizing that she can’t try to make mosquitoes go away without taking a nasty fall.

People say: “Pull it taunt.” (Or “Pull it taught.”)

They mean: “Pull it taut.”

Here’s why:

Taut is a word that has fallen out of general use. It means “tight,” in a very limited sense, and most of us use tight instead of taut , so this issue may become moot in the near future. But in the meantime, it’s important not to use the wrong word in place of taut , or you’ll look silly. Let’s start with the mistake that’s the most forgivable.

It’s easy to understand why someone would write taught when they mean to write taut : they sound exactly alike. But they mean very different things. Taut is an adjective. It means “tight,” but in a more limited sense. You can have a taut rope, but you can’t wear taut trousers, for example. Taught , on the other hand, is the past tense of the verb teach . Remember this one by realizing that you can pull a rope taut, but no matter how hard you pull, it will never teach you anything.

The other misuse is completely mystifying to me, and yet I’ve heard many, many people—smart people!—use it. “Pull it taunt,” they say, usually talking about a rope. In my youth, I was accused of being a smart-aleck when I asked my Scoutmaster what he meant. “Should I pull it and then make fun of it?” Because that’s what taunt means: to tease or mock someone. So how did that n get into the word taut , turning it into an opportunity for innocent young me to get stuck doing the washing-up for the whole troop as a punishment for my wiseacre attitude? I have no idea. It may be that taut is falling out of general usage, but then again, so is taunt . Think about it: when was the last time you heard about one child ‘taunting’ another on the playground? We usually use tease , or even bully (as a verb), where we might correctly use taunt . Maybe the misuse happens because taught is still a commonly used word that sounds exactly like taut , but means something very different. The logic might be that since the speaker knows that he doesn’t mean taught , it must be a different word, and this other seldom-used word (which he also doesn’t know the meaning of) sounds like it might fit. Sure, it has an extra n in it, but who cares? He sure doesn’t mean to say taught . If this is the case, it’s an example of a very small linguistic shift, and this sort of thing does happen in languages over time. Thankfully, both taut and taunt are, as mentioned, falling out of general usage, and we won’t have to worry about it for much longer. Remember the difference by realizing that if you try to pull something ‘taunt,’ I will gleefully make fun of you. Or you can just use tight .

People say: "Different than”

They mean: “Different from”

Here’s why:

They don’t sound alike, nor are they spelled alike. This is a pure question of an informal (and imprecise) usage creeping into formal speech and writing. Than is a conjunction meant to be used comparatively, as in, “You may be smarter than she is, but she knows more than you do.” There has to be a value difference between the things being compared. One thing needs to be larger, faster, heavier, stronger, wetter, closer, or whatever, to use than . Than doesn’t work when there is no value difference in the things being compared. You’d never write, “Han is unique than Leia is,” or, “Dantoine is remote than Alderaan,” for example. It doesn’t sound right. There must be an explicit comparison of unequal values. Dantooine, for example, can be more remote than Alderaan. (Han can’t be more unique, since unique is a superlative, but I digress.)

Different is a curious word in that it talks about un-like-ness without necessarily implying a difference in quality or value. “Han and Leia are different,” or, “Dantooine and Alderaan are different.” The differences may be objective, “Han and Leia are different: Han is a man and Leia is a woman,” or subjective “Han and Leia are different: Han is unpleasant and Leia is agreeable.” But to use the comparative conjunction than , you need one thing to be more (or less) of the same quality than the other. Han can be more unpleasant than Leia, or Dantooine can be more remote than Alderaan, for example.

From , however, is a preposition with many usages. It can be used to indicate a starting point, as in, “Luke brought Artoo from Tatooine to the Death Star.” It can be used to indicate a source, as in, “Luke got his lightsaber from Obi-Wan.” It can be used to indicate removal or prevention, as in, “Han saved Leia from being executed.” And it is used to denote difference, as when Luke asked Yoda, “How am I to know the good side from the bad?” Luke didn’t ask, “How am I to know the good side than the bad,” did he? Of course not, because that sounds wrong.

Of course, the informal construction, “This is different than that,” is so widely used that it hardly sounds ungrammatical anymore, even though there’s no level of difference being compared. “This is more different than that,” would be more grammatically satisfying, though what exactly is being differed from is unspecified. To add to the controversy, some English-speaking countries are starting to use to instead of from , as in, “Dantooine is different to Alderaan.” No foolin’; I’ve heard this usage on the BBC. This is one of those little things that drive prescriptive grammarians crazy, and merely annoy amateur linguists like me. You don’t really need to remember the difference, since nobody will call you on it if you write, “Han is different than Luke.” Most people won’t even notice anything odd about that sentence. If someone does complain about it (and isn’t your boss or your peevish professor), you can tell him that this usage has become so common that it is now accepted in formal writing. The response you get will be either an interesting discussion or a pompous insistence that you’re wrong. This is one way in which linguists are different from* prescriptive grammarians.

*See what I did there?

People say, “You inferred that….”

They mean, “You implied that….” (Or the other way 'round)

Here’s why:

These words are both falling into disuse. They don’t often come up in casual conversation, but when they do, they’re often used by someone who wants to sound more educated than he really is. This strategy often backfires, since the writer (usually an anonymous poster on an internet forum or commenter on a blog) often mixes up these unfamiliar words because of their related meanings.

When someone implies something, they’re trying to say something without explicitly stating it. For example, if someone said, “There may be an honest reason for Joe to be searching through Steve’s bureau, but I can’t think of one,” they would be implying that Joe was doing something dishonest.

When someone infers something, they’re assigning an unstated meaning to somebody else’s statement. For example, if the first person merely said, “I don’t know why Joe was searching through Steve’s bureau,” and a second person said, “Are you calling Joe a thief?” the second person inferred the accusation, since one was not implied.

The confusion comes from the fact that if an unstated meaning is implied, it must necessarily also be inferred if the intent of the message is to be understood. Remember this difference by remembering that only a speaker or a writer can imply, and only a listener or reader can infer.

People say, “Literally”

They mean, “Figuratively”

Here’s why:

When you say that something literally happened, you mean that you are not speaking in metaphor; the words you say denote what happened in real life. If you say "I literally ran out of gas on the interstate," then we can assume you probably had a long walk to the gas station, but if you say "I 'literally' ran out of gas halfway through my cross-country footrace," we have to wonder what you were carrying gas for, in the first place. Amusingly, lots of people misuse literally as a kind of intensifier, probably trying to make what they’re saying sound more interesting. “The guy at the comedy club was so hilarious I literally busted a gut laughing!” Wow, really? So, can I see the scar? Or did you bust someone else’s gut? “When I jumped out of the closet, Bob here was so scared, I swear he literally jumped out of his skin!” Wow, really? How’d you get his skin back on him, then? ‘Cos, there’s his skin, with him right inside it.

This becomes even more amusing when people misuse literally to intensify a euphemism. They might actually mean that the thing the euphemism figuratively describes literally happened, but that’s not what their words actually mean. “That anatomy class was so gross, I literally tossed my cookies.” Wow, really? Was the professor mad at you? Did anyone catch them? Why do gross things make you throw baked goods around the room? If it was any grosser, would you have tossed a pie? Oh, you mean you vomited! Literally? That's so gross!

Remember the correct usage by thinking about this short film. I would embed it, but there’s some NSFW language that would not be suitable for HubPages. But if you’re an adult and are not offended by some four-letter words and implied sexual situations, you will enjoy “Literally,” winner of The Mitten Movie Project's 'Best Of Show' Award - July 2009.

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lmmartin 5 years ago from Alberta and Florida

Another interesting hub full of common errors in speech. Though I must say, anyone calling a speaker out on these is either pompous or pedantic. As you've implied and we've inferred, common use does make it correct. That's how language grows and changes. Colloquial speech is different from written speech in some cases, but not all. Fiction, for example, is more alive when written with common use. After all, what fun would a character be who constantly spouted perfect grammar and usage? And would we like him?

Still, it's important to know the difference. Thanks for another fun hub. By the way, the idea of rappelling is repellent to me. Lynda

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Jeff Berndt 5 years ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Hi, Lynda! Absolutely: pointing out someone's misuse of a word in conversation is almost always rude. The only exceptions I can think of are if you're that person's English teacher, or if you genuinely don't understand what the person means. But as for the pedantic grammar bully? Such a character can be all kinds of fun, (like Holofernes in Love's Labours Lost) but no, nobody would like him.

Thanks for commenting!

kkreft 5 years ago

Lynda's comment makes me think of that Star Trek TNG episode: Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra.

Personally, I believe that if common usage is allowed free rein, we'll end up with a language like that - and I have a hard time believing that the language of that alien is possible. How on earth could a small child hear the phrase "Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra" and get all the subtext of the story if they hadn't heard the story? It's impossible. There would still have to be something to convey the meaning. And common usage that's incorrect strips the language of its real meaning.

I am a Grammar Nazi - but I think someone HAS to be or our ability to actually communicate will figuratively atrophy. (Could it literally atrophy? Is that possible?)

Julie 5 years ago

Hi Jeff! Nice job--these were funny here, but annoying in conversation! Some of my favorites: supposebly, and I could care less. LOL

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JamaGenee 5 years ago from Central Oklahoma

Thanks to the ubiquitous use of cell phones and texting, proper spelling and grammar appears to be going the way of 8-track tapes. A sad prospect for those of us who love writing, reading, and intelligent conversation.

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Jeff Berndt 5 years ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Hi, folks! Thanks for stopping by!

kkreft, if common usage is allowed free rein, language will naturally evolve. Nobody speaks in Chaucer's East Midlands dialect anymore, for example. It had even changed rather a lot by Shakespear's time, and nobody accuses Shakespear of having written in a "degenerated" language. Shakespear himself routinely violated the rules of grammar ans syntax. His oft-quoted "But me no buts" uses a conjunction as both a verb and a noun in the same sentence, and yet we understand the meaning. And that's what's really important.

JamaGenee, interestingly, standardized spelling is a relatively recent invention. Shakespear himself spelled his own name several different ways on official documents. (Shekespere, Shaxbeard, Shakespere, etc)

If we stopped letting language evolve, we'd have to refrain from using new and borrowed words, and start using prescriptive grammar rules even when they make no sense. That's the sort of situation up with which I will never put.

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Trish_M 5 years ago from The English Midlands

Hi :)

I have never hears of 'rappelling'.

I often hear Americans say 'different than', instead of the 'correct' form 'different from', but in England, 'different to' is more commonly used.

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Tom Koecke 5 years ago from Tacoma, Washington

Another phrase commonly misused is "beck and call." What the heck is a beck? Of course, it is a "beckon call!"

Please get that one out there in one of your hubs on this topic!

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Jeff Berndt 5 years ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Tom, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but the standard usage is in fact "beck and call." This is the only instance where you'll still see the word "beck" being used. It's an archaic shortening of the word "beckon." The standard usage is a bit redundant, since if you're "at someone's beck and call," it means you come when he wants you, whether he becks (beckons) or calls. But the nonstandard usage, "at someone's beckon call" is syntactically jarring, as it puts two nouns together with no conjunction between them. It's akin to someone saying, "I traveled by train ship," instead of, "I traveled by train and ship." We want the first noun (either 'beckon' or 'train') to take on an adjectival function, so that the second noun is a special category of itself: not just a 'call,' but a 'beckon call,' whatever that is. But 'beckon' will not function as an adjective no matter how hard we hit it with the grammar hammer. The nonstandard 'beckon call' may also be a phonetic transcription of the way the standard phrase sounds to most of us: "beck 'n' call." That kind of thing happens all the time--witness the rampant use of "should of" instead of "should've" or "should have."

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Tom Koecke 5 years ago from Tacoma, Washington

Thanks for the lesson.

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Tom Koecke 5 years ago from Tacoma, Washington

While I was looking this up, I also found "beckoned call" is commonly misused for "beck and call." You can still use my suggestion - you just have to switch it around!

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tnderhrt23 5 years ago

I always enjoy your grammar hubs, and learn so much from them!

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RachaelLefler 5 years ago from Illinois

I already knew these. Why are people such idiots about simple rules? I understand foreigners whose native language is not English, but there's no excuse for native English speakers to be this bad at their language. Personally I blame the American school system.

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Jeff Berndt 5 years ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Well, Rachel, I'm a product of the same system you blame, so it's not as simple as that.

Some people are Math whizzes. Not me, though I can do math. Some people are talented musicians. Not me, though I can play a few instruments. Most people can learn to 'do math' or 'play an instrument.' But most of us will never be truly fluent in math or music. The difference is that we use language (spoken or written) all the time, and unless you consciously think about it, it's as easy to make mistakes like these as it is to forget to carry the one or miss the key-change.

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RTalloni 5 years ago from the short journey

Always enjoy your Gammer Geek stuff and such. :) The comments are usually worth reading as well.

I'm always amazed at how the way we might speak in common conversation can be translated into writing. I've often thought that if a person were writing what they were saying they would not use a particular word the wrong way. In conversation a word like rappelling spoken as repelling can be laughed off as a twist of the tongue. I like to think I am more careful with writing.

However, I've come across some of my own comments on other's hubs...yikes, how embarrassing. Either my brain was doing double time while my fingers were tired, or my brain was way too tired to be hubbing!

Good stuff you offer...need to check back on your work more often. It's good to continue learning and to do "reminder" reading. This sort of hub helps--thanks again.

Voted up and funny.

Would like to link this to my Hubpages Milestones hub if you have no objection.

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Jeff Berndt 5 years ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Thanks for the kind words, RTalloni. Link away!

Ben 21 months ago

The term "moot" is being used incorrectly in this article.

"so this issue may become moot in the near future."

Google moot, the definitions do not apply. I think.

Just trying to help...

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Jeff Berndt 21 months ago from Southeast Michigan Author

Moot is an interesting word, and it's used correctly (in one of its meanings-- an intellectual exercise, but not much use beyond that) here.

But you've reminded me that sometimes people say "It's a mute point" when they mean "It's a moot point," and that's a great idea for part of a future article. So, thanks!

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